Scenario: Difficult to Ignore

This scenario may contain explicit language and references to sexual situations, including sexual violence which may be emotionally activating for some people. If you need support, you can contact the Sexual Misconduct Support and Resource Centre (SMSRC) at 1-844-750-1648 (24/7/365) or have access to services for Canadian Armed Forces members and Defence Team employees.

Group Size: 4-15

Scenario

You are an instructor at a Canadian Armed Forces (CAF) training establishment. You work with another instructor who is a very popular character amongst the school staff. Very quickly, you develop a friendship with this individual. 

After several months, you begin to suspect that he has an alcohol-related problem. Although he is never late for work, he always seems exhausted in the mornings and his eyes are often bloodshot. His eyes are often glassy after lunch, and you know he keeps a large bottle of mouthwash in his desk. Several times, when working late, he was giddy, and his breath smelled of alcohol. You approached him, but he denied having a problem. 

You let it go, but during a course party, a few students recount some stories. They give evidence that, on more than one occasion, he appeared at the quarters after-hours drunk and made sexual advances towards students.

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Facilitator’s Guide

Learning Objectives

Facilitation Questions

  1. What would you do in this situation? What are the considerations? 
    • Allow open discussion from the group.
    • Ethical concerns: You are concerned, not only for the health of a member of the teaching staff, but also for the safety of the students. As a friend, you want to make sure that he gets help and that he does not incriminate himself or jeopardize his career. Does abuse of power come into play in this scenario?
    • Personal factors: Although the required action is clear (you want to help him), the sensitivity of the issue and the fact that he is a colleague and a friend make your intervention more uncomfortable.
    • Environmental factors: Your friend’s conduct will affect the reputation of the training establishment. He is not setting a good example for the candidates nor for junior staff members. It is possible that other members of the school are aware of his situation but are choosing to ignore it.
  2. What is the ethical dilemma in this situation?  
    • At first glance, this case seems like a right and wrong situation. The required action is clear. 
    • However, it is a competing values dilemma because of the difficulty in differentiating your loyalty to a colleague who needs help versus your responsibility as a CAF member to look after someone’s well-being. Furthermore, it is ethically unacceptable to do nothing, especially since his behaviour is beginning to impact on the candidates. In addition, his behaviour in the quarters cannot be ignored.  
  3. What are some potential courses of action that could be taken in this scenario? 
    • Option 1: Talk to him and mention that his behaviour is having an impact on the candidates. Recommend seeking professional help from a Medical Officer (MO) or someone else in the chain of command. He might deny having a problem and refuse to comply. Advise him that if he refuses, you have the duty to involve the chain of command.  
    • Option 2: Speak to someone in the chain of command yourself and voice your concerns. The chain of command will have to handle the situation. Your friend will most likely be removed from the school. You might become a “target” for turning in a fellow instructor.
    • Option 3: Ignore it and do nothing. However, your inaction does question your true loyalty to your friend. If the situation deteriorates and becomes more problematic, you could become accountable.  

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